By Eric Veeto Nyengani - Team Leader
A life skills session with young people |
Sparing some time to volunteer with YONECO is the best thing one may think of in life. This could help bring answers to some of the questions we usually have.
Different organizations work in the
communities where we come from, but it becomes very difficult to understand the
impact of the work they are doing to the lives of people. Now YONECO in
partnership with ICS, has answers to these and so many other questions and worries.
Knowing all the personal challenges which people
are facing in the society may compel a person not to think of volunteering
because they may be thinking that they will not meet their targets in life.
Looking back to my school life, my teacher
in primary school used to say that nothing is achieved without being sponsored
financially, and because of this I thought that volunteering was a waste of
time. This was the case as I was focusing on achieving my goals in life,
volunteering is not financially supported. Little did I know that volunteering
can also have a huge and long lasting impact in achieving my personal goals.
As a community member now, I am fully
aware of various negative perceptions about Sexual Reproductive Health and Rights
(SRHR) and people to get accurate information to smash out these beliefs.
Consequently; people, especially the youth, have so many unanswered questions and
this also prevents them from finding ways of addressing various SRHR challenges
in their communities.
People are constantly trying to understand
so many things about SRHR. For instance; before the YONECO - ICS Programme, both old
and young people were asking questions like;
·
Where
can I go and access SRH&R information in Nkhata Bay district
·
What
can I do if am being abused or my friend is being abused?
·
If
my first daughter has been impregnated due to unprotected sex where can I go to
get help so that I can protect my second daughter from falling in the same
trap?
·
As
someone who lives in a rural and remote village, do I also have freedoms and
rights?
YONECO - ICS volunteers have assisted a
lot to provide answers to all the questions that are present
in the community. Furthermore, the Tithandizane Toll
Free Helpline number (116) has
been widely publicized so much that communities are now able to report cases of
abuse and other issues they face.
Our efforts also saw an increase in the
number of young people and parents who were visiting YONECO office in Nkhata Bay to seek SRHR
information and counselling as well as some other l issues like the role of
parents in the promotion of young people’s sexual reproductive health.
I am very hopeful that the answers that have been given to these
communities will have a positive and long lasting impact on their lives as we
are all going towards achieving sustainable development.
As an individual, I also benefitted a lot
during my placement as a volunteer in Nkhata Bay district. Before we
commencement of our activities, I also had my own worries an questions like;
· Will I be able to stand in front of people
to make a presentation and facilitate a session?
· How am I going to understand the
organization’s work in my community?;
· Where am I going to get the office and
field?
A life skills session with secondary school students in progress |
These were some of the questions I had as
an individual before I knew YONECO and ICS. My involvement in the ICS program
responded to these personal questions which I had by providing answers. I managed to get
responses for all the questions that I had.
I experienced this in my first three
months as a volunteer when my knowledge was being sharpened and my understanding
of situations also increased more than I expected.
However, challenges are always there that
is life we just need to accept, being stressed at one point was one of the
major challenges I faced in leading the team, coping up with emotions and
stress was one of the life skills sessions we conducted in the second week of
our placement. This topic contributed further to my understanding in a way that
I learned useful management skills on how to deal with such situations.
This has contributed to my personal
development in a way that I understand that without even a single Kwacha
{money} one can still develop his/her career. As an active citizen now, I see
that volunteering is very rewarding - not financially as most of us expect. The
rewards of volunteering are far much greater than what money can buy. It is so gratifying to see how your
contribution is changing people’s lives while you are also building your own
self in the process.
The development of our society depends on
how everyone will utilize the answers they got to the questions they had. One
thing I know for sure is that; answers have been provided for
community members to move forward towards the right direction.
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