Listening to the
concerns of several traditional and religious left me sad, albeit, sympathetic.
I wondered whether young people do not
want the best for themselves when it comes to issues that concern their sexual
reproductive health. The leaders I met
in Chikwawa district during a meeting on young people and sexual reproductive
health expressed their great terrors over what has become of young people of
today. The leaders pointed out several SRH challenges which young people in the
district are facing.
This entry is a
result of how I felt obliged to engage fellow young people over SRH challenges
that have made the custodians of culture and the clergy to have that deep fear.
The frontrunners in religion high rates of planned or unplanned teen
pregnancies, increased prevalence rate of HIV and other Sexually Transmitted
Infections (STIs) among young people, child marriages and many other such challenges.
Local leaders
indicated that apart from forced child marriage happening here and there; most
young people who marry before reaching the age of 18 make the decision to do so
against disapproval and wise counsel from parents and older relatives. I do not
know how far true this statement is but I have also seen some young girls dropping
out of school taking matrimonial vows against the wishes of parents. Upon
facing resistance, some young boys and girls just leave their homes and start
cohabiting with a partner.
However, the war
against forced child marriages is slowly being won and the progress is also
evident in the way local leaders have avowed their commitment to end forced
child marriages in their areas.
Another
traditional leader openly accused young people of indulging in sexual promiscuity
and justify their actions by asserting that they are doing such things because
they were told at initiation camp. The leader further added that, nowadays, most
initiators do not talk about sexual cleansing anymore. My take on that one is firstly on the youth
who live in urban areas where they do not go to initiation camps. Young people
tend to blame information from initiation camps and take it as a cover to
indulge in unprotected sex.
Information about the dangers of unprotected sex is
just everywhere and it is hard to note that the youth are not willing to take
heed. Secondly, young people who go to initiation camps should be assertive
enough to challenge some wrong information they get. It is high time young
people across the country started visiting health centres and clinics where
they can get correct and reliable info ration about SRH.
Some religious
leaders also blamed young people for their shyness which prevents them from
knowing their denomination’s stand on various SRHR services like
contraceptives. One religious leader indicated that he is always saddened by
the increase in the number of young people from his church who are getting pregnant.
Young people
need to set their priorities straight. This involves setting goals in life and
using all possible and legitimate means of achieving their goals. This also
includes saying no to child marriages, preventing STIs including HIV as well as
avoiding unwanted pregnancies through abstinence from sex or seeking SRHR
services.
1 comment:
Young people are there for tomorrow's world unfortunately seems none around cares, this calls for support so that these young leaders are protected. The next generation protection is an issue that the whole world need. The rotten nation will be a result of today's foundation. LET'S ACT and the time is NOW!
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